Don’t Be the 5th Frog!
John Foster Dulles, Former Secretary of State Once said: “The measure of success is not whether you have a tough problem to deal with, but whether it is the same problem you had last year.”
And educator Roy Blitzer states that the “Two basic rules of life are these: (1) change is inevitable and (2) everybody resists change. The only person who likes change is a wet baby.” (Hilarious!)
We all enjoy doing things in life that ultimately create results for us, even when those results do not serve us with the best outcomes. On the same token, we expect better results yet resist anything new, which becomes the point when we crawl back into our safe havens where it is most safe and most comfortable.
At first this would not seem so absurd but it is quite true since the paradox is that, change is the only constant. Thus, in order for us to grow and evolve, we must learn to change and stretch beyond our comfort zone.
As an example, taking into consideration that you are comfortable with engaging in a specific activity such as your job that you’ve been in for the last 20 + years, then you are simply doing what you’ve already been doing for the last 20 + years, which is producing the exact same results as the year before this (or decade for this matter) and so on and so forth.
Conversely, if you’re willing to step out of your comfort zone and just do something that will make you uncomfortable; a new skill, activity, strategy, talent; then what do you think will happen? You WILL produce new and innovative outcomes! And how do you suppose that would lead you to feel?
My point? If it is uncomfortable, it more than likely means that you’re doing the right thing and it’s the quickest course to greater success and accomplishments. Need I say, “Don’t stop, keep it up!”? Maintain your competitive edge, get comfortable with being uncomfortable and embrace change.
Think of it in this light: It is healthy to embrace and respond to the new normal.
Today is the day to reevaluate and refine your strategy and approach.
Here is a final question to you posed by Mark L. Feldman. There are five frogs sitting comfortably on a log and one decides to jump off. How many frogs are left? The answer is five. There are five frogs left sitting on the log because there’s a difference between deciding and doing.
Don’t be the fifth frog that decided NOT to take that “leap of faith” if you will. Make the decision to EMBRACE CHANGE instead of simply embracing your good intentions that have no action to drive them.

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9 comments to “Don’t Be the 5th Frog!”
January 12th, 2010 at 12:50 PM
Hey Jaclyn,
I figured that I would be the 1st to
comment on your post because I just
love participating in the blogging
community. If you ever have a new
post, don’t hesitate to email me and
I will share it with my netowrk
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Jaclyn Castro Reply:
January 19th, 2010 at 7:52 AM
You bet, Donny! Thanks for contributing “awesomeness” to our
AWESOME community!
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January 20th, 2010 at 4:01 PM
Jaclyn,
Powerful article! The comment that really hit home was “If it’s uncomfortable it more than likely means you are doing the right thing.” There is a lot about this experience that is uncomfortable right now
Thanks for your eloquent reminder that it’s okay to be out of your comfort zone in the “doing” mode!
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Jaclyn Castro Reply:
January 22nd, 2010 at 2:01 AM
Right on Darlene! Instead of getting comfortable…try falling in love with growth.
And smile while doing it!
…you know where to find me if you need any help at all
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February 2nd, 2010 at 2:51 AM
Love the Roy Blitzer quote: “Two basic rules of life are these: (1) change is inevitable and (2) everybody resists change. The only person who likes change is a wet baby.”
Great article.
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February 3rd, 2010 at 12:35 PM
Hey Jax,
Great post once again girl! I agree getting comfortable with getting uncomfortable is important! If I did not do this early on when I got started, i would not be here right now…
Keep the valued content coming…
Toki Tover
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February 3rd, 2010 at 12:37 PM
This who embrace change will make a difference in the lives of others, those who resist it, will never make it! Great article!
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February 4th, 2010 at 2:53 PM
Embracing change is one of the best ways to stay young and healthy also…continuing to learn and grow is one of the most exciting things in life.
Thanks for this valuable reminder to push the edges of the comfort zone!
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February 5th, 2010 at 11:18 AM
Jackie,
Wow! Your thoughts on this post are so DEAD ON! Nothing happens until we are willing to get out of our comfort zones and certainly nothing happens if we only “decide” to do something…we have to take action!
Hats off to you! You are an ACTION TAKER!
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